Your dad’s goal has always been focused on living alone. But, he’s starting to have a tougher time with some of his daily chores. How do you know when it’s time to have a conversation about getting help from home care?
He’s Lonely
If your dad is alone all day, it’s important for him to have ample opportunities to socialize. His social circle may have shrunk over the years, but that doesn’t mean he has to be alone. Arrange to have home care stop by for companionship.
Companionship visits can take place a few times a week, once a week, or every day. He’ll have a caregiver to walk with, learn how to play his favorite games, or watch movies with him.
He’s Suffered a Health Setback
While it’s common for older adults to have at least one chronic health condition, it’s very stressful to learn your dad’s been diagnosed with something. Worsening or changing health is often a good indicator of the need for assistance with ADLs or IADLs.
Your dad’s routine is going to change. He may need to exercise more, take prescription pills, shift his diet, or visit his doctor more often. With the help of home care aides, these changes are manageable.
He Can’t Drive
Your dad’s doctor told him to stop driving. You’re having a hard time balancing his appointments and errands with your job and personal life. Home care aides can drive him around during the week. That makes it easy for you to focus on yourself during the week and catch up with your dad on weekends or days off.
His Safety Is at Risk
If your dad’s safety is at risk, it’s time to address home care. You want to have caregivers helping him before he falls and hurts himself. Some of the areas where he’s more likely to lose his balance include stairs, stepping in and out of the tub or shower, and getting out of bed.
In the winter, icy steps or sidewalks are risky. He needs to have someone with him to help steady him as he goes to get the mail or take a walk. Make sure you arrange to have someone shovel snow from his driveway and sidewalks, stairs, and decks or patios.
The last thing to consider about safety is what happens if he falls or has a medical emergency. Does anyone check on him often? You’ve probably seen news articles about older adults who fell and couldn’t get to a phone to call for help. Or, older adults may run out of groceries and not alert anyone they need to make an extra trip that month. Home care providers can check in every day and make sure he’s okay and has everything he needs.
Do you still have questions about arranging home care for your dad? Get a list of questions ready. Talk to an advisor about your dad’s health, ability to take care of himself, and areas where you’ve been giving him a helping hand.
If you or an aging loved one is considering home care in Laurel, MT, call the caring staff at SYNERGY Home Care of Billings today. 406-839-2390
